Well I was taking a nap up till now when a few thoughts started to churn in my head. So I got up and and started writing. My writing helps me to keep my sanity and my balance.
When I write on my personal blog, I don't write with the intention that someone reads it. How and why I started my blog is is still puzzling me. I had heard of people maintaining their blogs, but then when I write I occupy a space of my own which is intangible. And I love spending time with me, helps to talk out whatever goes on inside.
Have I lost my nuts or am I doing something perfectly normal. Usually talking to oneself may not be deemed right by the patriarchal society we live in. But I am going to go ahead with whatever I feel. It makes me happy and I don't need any more introspection. If I talk in a general sense, its all about putting your thoughts across the table. For me its my writing, for you it maybe talking, texting or chatting with your friend. Having an intimate chat with your spouse, a playful chuckle with your children or maybe a concerned talk with your parents. Its all about having that vent, that patient ear.
Its so important to communicate and more importantly communicate in the proper way. Expressing your feelings is not at all enough. It must be properly timed and through the correct channel as well. Sometimes we undermine this essential part. What I think is that perhaps this is what that makes all the difference. After the time and opportunities have gone, all we are left with is an inconsolable regret. One must learn to appreciate these small facts of life in time, before time makes you appreciate what you had or what you could have had.
So I would say that pick yourselves up, go across and blurt out before its too late, before the time that your bellowing turn into meager whispers. As always you will not have all the say in this regard too, some situations are way out of your control but dominate the ones that are inside your reach. Reach out, speak up, pour it out of your heart while you still can.
I am not so good at speaking up, but then I also can't write everything down. A flaw which I would like to remove from me.
When I write on my personal blog, I don't write with the intention that someone reads it. How and why I started my blog is is still puzzling me. I had heard of people maintaining their blogs, but then when I write I occupy a space of my own which is intangible. And I love spending time with me, helps to talk out whatever goes on inside.
Have I lost my nuts or am I doing something perfectly normal. Usually talking to oneself may not be deemed right by the patriarchal society we live in. But I am going to go ahead with whatever I feel. It makes me happy and I don't need any more introspection. If I talk in a general sense, its all about putting your thoughts across the table. For me its my writing, for you it maybe talking, texting or chatting with your friend. Having an intimate chat with your spouse, a playful chuckle with your children or maybe a concerned talk with your parents. Its all about having that vent, that patient ear.
Its so important to communicate and more importantly communicate in the proper way. Expressing your feelings is not at all enough. It must be properly timed and through the correct channel as well. Sometimes we undermine this essential part. What I think is that perhaps this is what that makes all the difference. After the time and opportunities have gone, all we are left with is an inconsolable regret. One must learn to appreciate these small facts of life in time, before time makes you appreciate what you had or what you could have had.
So I would say that pick yourselves up, go across and blurt out before its too late, before the time that your bellowing turn into meager whispers. As always you will not have all the say in this regard too, some situations are way out of your control but dominate the ones that are inside your reach. Reach out, speak up, pour it out of your heart while you still can.
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